Attract Love by Learning To Forgive Past Hurts

Dr. John Gray, relationship expert, author of over 20 books, and contributor to the movie The Secret, describes the inability to forgive as: `It’s like taking poison every day, and expecting the other person to get sick!’.

What a brilliant analogy. How can you expect to attract love into your life when you carry around a burden of bitterness, grudges, and hard feelings. These will only weigh you and your joyful spirit down. It is as if each morning you wake anew, and decide not to take a shower, don’t use any cologne or lotions, and then dress in new clothes to go out for the day. There is something rotten under all that newness, and it won’t be long before what’s inside becomes noticeable to those around you!

If you really want to attract love, you must learn to forgive. Take some time to consider the times in your life that you have been hurt, disappointed, misused, and even outright abused. Keep in mind that you’re not alone. May I We live in a world where other people will hurt us, either deliberately, or quite accidentally, and then go along their way as if it never happened. You may be waiting for an apology, and you have every right to remand one. However, none of these feelings serve you. It is impossible to live a fully positive and productive life and attract love.

Take an inventory of the past hurts in your life. Write them down, one by one, until you are certain they are all on paper. Now take that paper to a large, beautiful bowl of water and let it float. Watch the water blur the ink, and watch the paper dissolve to nothingness. Depending on the type of paper you used, this may take a bit of time, however you did not gain all that bitterness in one moment, so spend some time watching it leave you. Accept that nothing good will be attained through holding on to those feelings, and allow the water, as it dissolves the paper, to also cleanse your spirit. When the paper has fully dissolved the paper, take the bowl outside, and pour the water onto the toilet.

Now, you have so much more room in your heart, mind and soul to fully and deeply breathe in the wonderment that is your life and attract love. `Life is what we are alive to. It is not length, but breadth. Be alive to goodness, kindness, purity, love, history, poetry, music, flowers, stars, God, and eternal hope.’, this from Maltbie Babcock, moralist writer from the early 1900s. And finally, from Desmond Tutu: “Without forgiveness, there’s no future“. May your future be as bright as your dreams can imagine…

Attract Love With The Universal Law of Attraction

For most of us, finding our ideal mate is a necessity in life. There is too much good in life to be experienced alone – ultimately we crave a lover to share our joy with.  And so it becomes important to us that we learn how to attract love and the perfect relationship for ourselves.  For although there are no perfect people, there are perfect matches.

The first thing you need to do to attract love with the universal law of attraction is to begin making a list of the traits your ideal mate should have.  Examples are kindness, generosity, loving, gentle, sexual, unpredictable, romantic, practical… there are many variables in personality that are very important.  Of course, we all want a physically attractive mate, so make sure you list that one too. When you finish, you may have a short list or a very long one.

Remember the list is important for you and for you alone.  You will not be manifesting these traits individually, but you can use this list as a guide for the type of person you will be visualizing.  To attract your love, begin your visualization exercises by placing yourself and your loved one together.  You may be alone, you may be in public; you may be anywhere you choose.  Walk through a theme park with them, and imagine them smiling and laughing as you both eat cotton candy.  Or imagine cuddling on the beach, watching the moon reflect off the ocean as the waves gently lap at the shore.

If you can help it, do not give the person any definite physical traits in your visualizations.  If you do, vary them each time you do the exercise, but keep that person’s core feeling the same – that being the way that they feel to you.  The feeling of being with them is far more important than how they look – this is what you are working on attracting.  The important thing is that you are creating the presence of a loving relationship in your life by visualizing one. The universe will help you attract love and bring this relationship to you physically before long.

You can also find a insignificant relic, such as a rock or something similarly meaningless. Work it into your visualization that night as something your beloved gives to you, and create a powerful meaning for that item in your imagination.  Then keep that item with you throughout the day each day, as a reminder of that special time together. Remember, the universe and your own subconscious can’t tell the difference between reality and a daydream. By creating this relationship in your imagination and feeding it constantly, your subconscious mind and the universe will bend to bring that relationship physically to you.

All you need to do is keep a feeling of that loving relationship going in your life, from visualization to visualization, week to week, and before long you will attract the perfect person for you.  Enjoy the process of attracting love with the universal law of attraction– it can be fun and heart-warming.